darkest lake

I believe that in life when everything goes wrong, or you can't achieve something that's because it's not  your part to play or you are knocking on the wrong door. life should be easy and simple, peaceful and full of experiences and not a struggle as many people used to think. we create and choose (sometimes in a very weird way) everything we live through. so the complications in life or any kind of problems showing us that we swim against the flow and it's time to let it go, relax and enjoy.

but what about love ? is the same method can be applied to the relationships or it's completely different subject ? if the couple from the beginning have the obstacles and nothing is smooth and mellow does it mean that you are hooking up with the wrong person ? or it is the opposite and it shows could your couple be strong and flexible enough in order to never break up later. because I know in my own experience that when everything is calm and easy between two people it doesn't necessarily lead you to the happy ending...

several weeks ago one person told me that if your couple is in front of the huge dark deep lake and there is no way to get around it and you have no idea what lives in there, well you have two solutions : give up or throw yourself in. if both of you could swim through without drown or get severely injured to the other side of the lake, well nothing will bring your relationship down after.
I like a lot this image and what if it is true ?...
let's hope, because I'm in this lake, still swimming but have no idea if it is the beginning, the middle or the end and I hate everything that lives in dark waters ! but I'm hopeful that all this experience will worth it and that I'll arrive to the other side of the lake better, stronger, wiser and not alone...